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How do you know when your someone's girlfriend/boyfriend?

Filed under: CatBitches

It seems like such a simple question and yet time after time people all over the world still get it embarrassingly wrong. You know what I mean: most of us have been there. You’ve been ‘seeing someone’ sometimes you call them dates other times they’re just meet ups (depending on how keen you are on the other person.) Heck, sometimes they’re just plain as day hook ups. The point is most people have experienced a situation whereby they’ve been regularly meeting up with someone (whether you have had sex or not is almost irrelevant)… but for some reason you’re not an actual ‘couple’ - certainly not officially. So you’re left thinking, “What is this!?”

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Online dating as an Asian woman - why race effects your online dating success

Filed under: CatBitches

I watched a video recently which aside from being brialliantly directed and choreographed was very well researched and informative to watch. It was a video that reeled off statistics (collected from various dating websites) about the behaviour of online daters. Now, I’m not just going to regurgitate what was in the video to fill out a blog post. No, I want to give my personal opinion (as an avid online dater) specifically on what online dating/dating is really like for an Asian female (i.e. me.)

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Why Arya from Game of Thrones is my favourite character

Filed under: EightBitBitch

If you haven’t watched Game of Thrones then ignore this entire blog post because won’t really get it. Also if you’ve not watched GoT then you need to rectify that because it’s brilliant. Even if you aren’t into the fantasy genre it’s worth watching because if you boil it down to its very essence GoT is essentially a political drama. One of my past ex’s hated the whole fantasy genre (a fact he kept pushing on me which contributed to our inevitable break up) but I convinced him to sit down and watch a few episodes of GoT with me – after the second one he was hooked.

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Why I don't mind overtly sexy female game characters

Filed under: EightBitBitch

So a friend of mine recently accused me of being less of a feminist than he was (the fact that he has a penis means nothing in this context.) The accusation came after we exchanged examples of illustration styles that we liked. His tastes are very different from mine, which lean more towards artists such as, Hyung-Tae-Kim and Masamune Shirow. At the time I didn’t think much of it, however it slowly formed in my mind: I consider myself to be a feminist. Not the Germaine Greer “burning bra” type, but a modern 21st century “equality for women” type. However, how can I call myself a modern feminist if I subconsciously enjoy imagery of unrealistic and overly sexualised women?

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Things you always forget to pack when travelling

Filed under: BitchAbroad

Going on holiday is always exciting. Because if you’re anything like me, then it normally requires an intense shopping session beforehand which always sees you buying a new bikini or two (as well as some other exciting purchases!) However there are some less exciting (but equally important) things you need to remember to pack, or they’ll cost you a fortune to replace when you’re away! So what are they and why is it such a pain when you forget them? Well everybody’s list if different but below is a list of things that I find crucial to take when going abroad…

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Marrakesh and Mint Tea: A review of Morocco

Filed under: BitchAbroad

When my (now ex) boyfriend Rob suggested a holiday to Morocco (Marrakesh) I was not overly keen on the idea. Mainly because most Moroccan's insist on putting fruit in almost everything they cook and I hate cooked fruit - particularly dry and preserved fruit. So naturally I assumed I was going to starve or end up eating plain couscous or bananas for the entire holiday. However, I eventually realised that I was being a bit dramatic. So I swallowed my apprehension and sat down with him to book it.

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Why being a grown up Goth doesn't work and my fucking gripe with it

Filed under: BitchAndMakeUp

Other than being accused of being a hipster and a geek, I’ve also been labelled as a Goth by a few people which I find rib shatteringly hilarious - because I wear a lot of black. I wear it mainly because it’s easier to bung everything in the same wash cycle and stains aren’t has prominent on black clothing than say… white. Not that I’m particularly messy eater or clumsy for that matter, it’s just something that has always stuck with me. I also have a penchant for the more tasteful macabre things in life. This combination has pretty much led me to be draped and dressed in black most days of the year – regardless of the season and a lot of people don’t get it.

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An open love letter to Alexander McQueen

Filed under: BitchAndMakeUp

When it comes to fashion labels I don’t really have a lot of loyalty but I do love Chanel. I have since I was a little girl (my first Chanel item was a beach towel when I was 11 – an extravagant gift from my mother.) I also love Vivienne Westwood with her punk influences and beautifully constructed dresses. However, as much as I love Karl and Viv, there is one designer who had my love faster than you could say haute couture. Well… I suppose I should say haute macabre because the designer in questions is none other than the irreplaceable Alexander McQueen – heaven rest his brilliant soul.

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Coming out of the chrysalis:- my promise to change

Filed under: LifesABitch

I’m in awe of nature, it’s beauty, ferocity, capability for abrupt and gradual change. The power of nature is a marvellous thing to behold. However, whenever I look at humans I see the same power. Because humans are capable of great beauty, terrifying ferocity and drastic change. Where am I going with this? Well… I’ve come to realise that as a human being I stopped growing. I stopped developing. I wasn’t making progress with my life. I was repeating the same detrimental patterns and not really achieving anything, and during this process I kept deluding myself with false achievement and concocting plausible excuses for why I wasn’t really doing anything about it.

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Things I'm grateful for

Filed under: LifesABitch

I spend a lot of time moaning about things that have gone wrong and things that I don’t have. I know this. It’s one of the reasons I get people reading my blog. It’s what I call ‘car crash’ reading. It’s bitchy, wickedly destructive, and yet strangely satisfying (well it certainly is for me, whether or not anyone else enjoys reading my words is another matter.) It’s how some bloggers made it big in the beginning (Perez Hilton, Bryan Boy, etc.) and whilst bitchy writing will always have its place, it does get tiresome and even the bitchiest person will sometimes need a break from it every now and again.

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